Category Archive: infidelity

The Unexpected Downside of Infidelity

follow site I was chatting with a dear friend this morning and he reminded me about one of the downsides of infidelity that we rarely talk about and that most never see coming.  It’s not getting caught, although that can be, and usually is, pretty bad. It’s something that is brought on by the experience itself. Most …

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free levitra and women I’ve been thinking about this concept a lot lately.  Unfaithfulness. Infidelity. Essentially, it means not keeping your promise, and it has come to be used almost exclusively with the act of not maintaining sexual fidelity. Marriages split up because one spouse had sex with someone outside the marriage. It has come to the point where …

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Mar 11 2014


Jan 25 2014

10 Tips for the Post-Discovery Talk

It’s difficult to even think about this, but what happens in the post-discovery talk can make the difference between your marriage surviving the affair or crashing and burning in an ugly divorce. So, you’ve been caught. She wants to talk.  What now? I’ve addressed most of my tips to men, but most also apply to …

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Jan 23 2014

It’s Just Not That Simple

This morning Ryan Beaumont sent me a link to a blog post he thought might interest me: Here’s How to Cheat Proof Your Relationship – Stay Attractive, written by Amy Glass. Essentially, she blames the non-cheating partner in the marriage for not being more attractive and desirable. There are several things in the piece that …

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Nov 18 2013

Male Chastity Devices…I Promise Not to Tell Your Wife

For centuries, if hubby wasn’t behaving, wifey just denied sex. It works until hubby finds another woman to satisfy his needs or until he just decides to pleasure himself. All that is over now.  Now there is a male chastity device that prevents the wearer from touching himself or dipping his stick in another woman. …

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Apr 18 2013

The Fuck Buddy Discovery

I took my son to an activity last night and when I got there I realized that I had left my cell phone at home. I couldn’t go home to get it because I was leading the activity and 10 other boys were showing up, so I was stuck. For the next hour and a …

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Jan 27 2013

The Intimacy Challenge

There’s no rule book for this lifestyle.  I wish there were. I’ve written a whole bunch of tips and I still believe they are valid, good guidelines, but there are still parts that I haven’t been able to master. Intimacy is one of them. It’s not that I haven’t had intimacy with anyone other than my husband. …

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Dec 14 2012

The Thing About Marriage Vows…

When you get married and you say, “I do,” that’s a response to a “yes or no” question.  Are you in this thing ’til death do you part, or not? It’s not conditional.  You are typically not given the option of saying, “I do, as long as she keeps all of her vows perfectly and …

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Dec 12 2012

Is Sex Important?

It seems like a silly question, doesn’t it? Of course sex is important.  The problem is how important it is. Most men think it’s more important than it really is, and most women think it’s less important than it really is. It’s that gap that leads to a lot of unhappiness in marriage and a …

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