Category Archive: communication

High Maintenance?

follow I never thought I was high maintenance.  Seriously, in high school and college friends would laugh about girls who were high maintenance and then  say, “I’m glad Kat’s not like that.”  My husband has bragged for years about how low maintenance I am, how I never complain, how it doesn’t take much or cost an … Continue reading »

What Do You *Really* Want?

I have a pet peeve that is growing larger by the day. I get annoyed when people say they want something from a partner, and then follow the statement with a qualification. For example, a man says to a woman, “I just want to hold you,” and then he continues with “but if you want …

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May 21 2012

Work, Sex, Communication….and Marital Discord

I know I haven’t been posting regularly, Prowlers. I’m sorry about that.  Trust me, I really want to post often, but sometimes life just gets in the way. This time, it has been work that has interfered. As many of you know, I own a small business and the buck stops with me, as they say. I’ve …

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Apr 28 2012

The Response

I was very moved by the response to the post Why I Cheat, not because I wanted approval of or support for my choices, but because I was struck by how many of us struggle with sexual issues at home. Having a mismatch in sexual desire between spouses is not uncommon at all, but when you’re living with it, …

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Oct 26 2011

Negotiating with Hubby

It was almost two weeks ago that I revealed my infidelity to Hubby. He told me about his a couple of months ago. Now that the “Kat is out of the bag,” so to speak, we have spent the better part of the last couple of weeks deciding how we want our marriage to work. Our starting points were …

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Jun 12 2011

Fool Me Once, Shame on You….

Fool me twice, shame on me. Once upon a time there was a woman who met a man on Ashley Madison. At first, she thought he was perfect for her. They had a few things in common, and they seemed to want the same things. Seeing him would require that she break one of her …

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May 18 2011

Kat’s Top 9 Prowling Pet Peeves

Anyone who knows me or who has been reading this blog for almost any amount of time knows that I am a pretty laid back Kat. Not much really bothers me and when it comes to prowling, I’m a “live and let live” kind of gal. Still, there are some things that really annoy me. …

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