Category Archive: AM

Dodging a Bullet Fired by a “Frighteningly Intelligent” Woman

here Sometimes you get a close call when you meet someone on AM. Things start out well, but then they turn, and if they turn before you have invested too much time or given away too much personal information, you feel grateful, like you just dodged a bullet. That’s what happened to a close friend of …

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Falling for Tall Guy

I met Tall Guy on AM in early January. At first there was nothing that really stood out about him except for the fact that he’s tall and he’s a decent writer, which is not common among men on AM.  Trust me on this. It’s not that I’m a writing snob, but when your only …

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Jan 09 2014

“Yep, you nailed it…I am that jerk!”

As I was perusing through the 40 messages that remained in my inbox, I saw one with a screen name that looked familiar. I noticed that he had revoked his private key and I asked why. This was his response:“Hi there, Cute pics! I was on AM a few years ago and just recently got …

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Nov 09 2012

The Councilman

When we started chatting on AM, he told me his name was Joe. I had no reason not to believe him, even though it’s pretty common for men to use a fake name to begin with.  Whatever.  We sent messages back and forth on AM for a few days and then we moved to email …

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Jul 28 2012

The Lingering Trauma of Prowling

By Somewhere Man The picture taunts me at work. Every day. The beautiful woman that I fell in love with last year is still in my life. Only she isn’t. This woman, whom I wrote and wrote about amid the heartache and heartbreak of last fall, now has a prominent spot in my office. Her …

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Apr 05 2012

Re-Visiting Ashley Madison

Well, I got a bee in my bonnet this week. I was a little upset with JJ, so I decided to jump back on AM and see what’s up.  I also needed to do some research for a reader who responded to my post about how not to approach a woman on AM with a request for what works. …

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Mar 29 2012

The Ones Who Broke My Heart ….

I have no idea why I’m writing this post. It’s just in me, pushing to come out.  Daunt and I were talking about that recently – how sometimes a post just demands to be written, and when that happens it pretty much writes itself. Here’s how it came about for me today.  I was thinking …

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Dec 07 2011

I Feel Sorry for Them

I jumped on AM again for a couple of days. I was restless, wondering what I would find.  Unfortunately, for the most part, I found more of the same. I honestly feel sorry for some of these guys because, if they keep going like they are, they’ll never get laid. I know AM is a tough …

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Aug 29 2011

Kat’s First Ashley Madison Encounter – Chicago Guy

It was a Sunday afternoon and I was working in my office at home. Correction:  I was procrastinating in my office at home. I had seen one of those faux Ashley Madison commercials on TV (brilliant marketing ploy, by the way) and I decided I had the time to take a look. I had also …

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Jul 17 2011

What’s Up with All the Single Guys on Ashley Madison?

The whole point of Ashley Madison is that it’s a place for married people to meet each other for affairs. The tag line is “Life is short. Have an affair.” On the splash page it says, “The world’s leading married dating service for discreet encounters.” So what’s with the seeming proliferation of single guys? I …

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