Category Archive: affair

Feb 07 2018

Why Married and Single Shouldn’t Mix (in Affairs)

I’ve said it before – married and single prowlers shouldn’t mix. Well, not in the bedroom, anyway. Why? Because there’s not an equal distribution of risk. The married person has a lot more to lose than the single one. If the single one gets angry or feels slighted, he (or she) has some powerful leverage. …

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Dec 20 2014

Familiar Ecstasy

It had been a very long time since I’d seen JJ, and for most of that time, we didn’t have any contact, either, so I wasn’t quite sure what to expect.  Well, I knew it would be great, but all the certainty I used to have about him was gone. Would we still have any chemistry? …

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Sep 08 2014

An Afternoon Escape with T (Part 2 of 2)

This is Part 2.  If you’d like to read Part 1 of An Afternoon Escape with T, click here. ****************************** Looking at T’s face is one of my favorite things to do.  I’ve already told you that he’s ruggedly handsome, and that’s true. Forget about the shirtless Abercrombie & Fitch models who have never seen …

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Aug 18 2014

The Art of the Alibi

The main reason that prowlers get caught is because they get sloppy with their alibis. We tend to be very careful in the beginning and then, if we have succeeded at not being caught, we get cocky and start to cut corners and that’s when the disasters happen. A good alibi needs to be simple, …

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Aug 13 2014

The Unexpected Downside of Infidelity

I was chatting with a dear friend this morning and he reminded me about one of the downsides of infidelity that we rarely talk about and that most never see coming.  It’s not getting caught, although that can be, and usually is, pretty bad. It’s something that is brought on by the experience itself. Most …

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Jul 22 2014

10 Surefire Ways to Ruin Your Affair

You’ve done all the searching.  You’ve found someone. You have an affair.  It’s fantastic! But then it all blows up in your face.  What happened? We tend to focus our time and attention on finding a partner, but that’s just the beginning. If you’re not careful, it can end as quickly as it began. Here …

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Jun 10 2014

Knock at the Door

It all started with a knock at the door. My son looked out the front window and shouted to me that it was a friend of Daddy’s. I opened the door expecting it to be one of Hubby’s buddies. Instead, I was looking at Hubby’s  favorite playmate from a few years ago. Twenty-something.  Blonde.  Not …

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Nov 14 2013

What’ll Keep Me Out of Heaven

It’s rare that I hear a song that really touches me and resonates like this one does. Brandy Clark’s “What’ll Keep Me Out of Heaven” got my attention. It captures the ambivalence I’ve felt about prowling. It’s wrong, but it feels right. It’s forbidden, but it lets us access parts of ourselves that have been …

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Feb 08 2013

Things I Want to Say to Ex-Lovers

When a relationship or encounter ends, I do my best to always be gracious. After all, it does no good to express a bunch of anger to the person. I prefer the high road – walk away without saying anything I might regret later and look at the whole thing as a positive experience and a lesson learned. It also …

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Dec 14 2012

A Stupid Prowler Story – Yes, It Really Happened

This story is so full of fuck-ups interesting happenings that I just had to share it with you. Here it is in a nutshell: Cop has affair with mistress.  Cop works the night shift and spends at least 57 nights playing with mistress instead of bring on patrol. Cop falsifies all sorts of records to cover his tracks …

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